Mary Bottler

Mary Bottler

Wednesday, December 8th, 1965 - Monday, August 5th, 2019
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Mary Bottler, 53, passed away peacefully on Monday, August 5, 2019 at Yale New Haven/Smilow Cancer Center, New Haven with her loving family and friends by her side.

She was born in Greenwich on December 8, 1965 to Natalie Polese Bottler and the late Anthony P. Bottler. She graduated from Sacred Heart Academy in Stamford in 1983 and graduated from Gannon University in Erie, PA in 1987. Mary was employed at Service America and Labatt’s and most recently employed as the Information Technology (IT) Manager of Application Development for DMHAS – Department of Mental Health and Addiction Services for the State of Connecticut for the last 12 years.

Mary is survived by her beloved mother Natalie Polese Bottler of Stamford; her cousins Steven Samela and his wife Jeanne; William Samela and his wife Patricia; Gregory Samela and his wife Teresa and Alicia Samela; close friends and her much-loved Hercules.
Generous, compassionate and fun-loving was a part of her everyday life. Always willing to listen and
lend a helping hand to all around her. Above all, she was dedicated to her mother.

Mary suffered with dignity, strength, and fortitude as she battled cancer. She was a light to all around her and will be truly missed.

A Memorial Mass will be celebrated on Tuesday, August 20, 2019 at 10:00 AM St. Bridget’s Church 278 Strawberry Hill Ave. Stamford, CT 06902. There will be no calling hours. Interment will be held privately.

In lieu of flowers, the family requests that donations be made in Mary’s memory to
Justin’s Wings of Hope Inc. c/o Steven J. Samela CPA,992 High Ridge Road, Stamford, CT 06905

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    Tuesday, August 20th, 2019 | 10:00am
    Tuesday, August 20th, 2019 10:00am
    St. Bridget of Ireland RC Church
    278 Strawberry Hill Avenue
    STAMFORD, CT 06902
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Mary Patricia Pataky

Posted at 08:54pm
My best friend of 45 years, I will miss you, more than you will ever know. You were the most kind, loving and caring person I have ever known and you were always there for me in good times and bad. You definitely knew how to make me smile & cheer me up. We have so many wonderful memories that I will keep close to my heart forever. You truly are my sister and I am blessed to have had you in my life. I love you so much. I hope you are at peace❤

Kevin Dillon

Posted at 10:44am
Mary, you are one of the most giving, loving spirits I've ever encountered. I always considered you as my other sister and I love you very much. We all miss you so and I know you are at peace with your Dad. Until we meet again I want to say all of our lives are so much better for having you in it than I think you ever realized.



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