I am so sorry to learn of your loss.
I fondly remember a trip the Bruce family took with the Casolo family, visiting Hyde Park, the Vanderbilt Mansion and West Point. At the Vanderbilt Mansion JR and Scott managed to "ring the alarm" by veering beyond the rope line! Then at West Point's Chapel the two raced to the front. It was your father who marched down the aisle to retrieve them -- the rest of us made believe we didn't know them............
My deepest sympathy to all.
Lois Bruce, Wilton